Stuck in a moment and I can't get out of it

I swear I have aged 40 years since Thursday. When I have this many thought running through my head, I like to use bullets to I don't for get anything. I also try to do them in order, but that doesn't always work, so forgive me.

• This past Thursday, I got engaged to the love of my life!
  
• He bought my dream ring that I have been talking about pretty much since we met :)

From there, it went downhill

• Told my mother, she was ecstatic. Told my father, he was not so much. Side note: he STILL hasn't said congratulations
• He couldn't even be bothered to look at my ring which
• Pissed my fiance off and in turn
• Pissed me off
• My fiance had to fly back to Seattle :(

Then it got a little better

• My mom assured us that she and my father would pay for the wedding
• Her getting excited about dress shopping, planner shopping, and shopping in general made me get excited

But of course, it didn't last

• Turns out my dad is racist
• He went so far as to give me reading material on hate crimes and the dangers that can befall an interracial couple
• He claims to have no money to pay for a wedding

Then it went up a little

• My mom said she would talk to my dad about his dickheadedness
• And it didn't matter, we would plan my wedding without him

Sigh, when will I learn

• She tells me SHE can't afford to pay for a wedding
• I have a sneaking suspicion my father has managed to change her mind

So basically I went from over the moon because I'm finally engaged to my soul mate to wanting to jump out of my office window because it looks like I won't be having a wedding.

Isn't this shit supposed to be the best time of my life?!?